The Ritual of Exclusion – Why Groups Need Boundaries to Feel Holy

Throughout history, human societies have created rituals that serve to strengthen bonds within a group by establishing boundaries. These boundaries, often drawing demarcations between the sacred and the profane, are crucial in defining the identity of the group and in fostering a sense of belonging among its members. In many cultures, this has taken the form of religious rites, but the concept of exclusion extends far beyond religion. This article delves into the reasons why groups need boundaries to feel holy and examines the psychological and cultural implications of these practices.

The Nature of Holiness and Exclusion

To understand the interplay between holiness and exclusion, it’s important to first clarify what is meant by ‘holy’. Derived from the word ‘whole,’ holiness often suggests completeness and sanctity, something set apart for a particular purpose. As defined by Mircea Eliade in his seminal work The Sacred and the Profane, the sacred is distinct from the everyday and mundane, representing a higher reality.

Groups, whether religious, social, or cultural, utilize boundaries to delineate what is holy to them. These boundaries can manifest physically — through places of worship, dress codes, and dietary laws — or symbolically, through shared beliefs and narratives. By creating a sense of distinction from the ‘other,’ groups can foster a deeper attachment to their identity and mission. This can be seen vividly in religions such as Judaism, where the concept of being a chosen people necessitates a lifestyle distinct from others. As Jay Michaelson notes in The Forward, “Jewish identity has always been about a set of practices and beliefs that draw borders between the sacred and the mundane.”

The Psychological Need for Boundaries

From a psychological perspective, boundaries serve an essential purpose in individual and group identity. By delineating who is ‘in’ and who is ‘out,’ groups provide their members with a means of understanding their place in the world. This is particularly prevalent during moments of uncertainty or existential crisis, where belonging to a group offers meaning and stability.

• Identity Formation: Boundaries help create a clear contrast between ‘us’ and ‘them,’ which is vital for identity. As Erik Erikson posited, identity development is a crucial part of human development, impacting our beliefs, values, and choices. When individuals participate in group rituals, they often express a shared identity, reinforcing the boundaries that define the group.
• Protection and Safety: By establishing what is considered holy, groups create a safe space for their members, insulating them from external threats. This is evident in communities that employ strict dietary laws or codes of conduct, as these rules serve not only spiritual but also communal and social purposes.
• Social Cohesion: Shared rituals and boundaries enhance social cohesion. The collective experience of ritual often involves emotions like awe or reverence, binding individuals to a larger whole. As anthropologist Jonathan Haidt discusses, these shared moral matrices unite communities through common values and principles.

Cultural Implications

Examining the cultural impact of ritual exclusion reveals its role in shaping societies. Groups create narratives of exclusion and inclusion to maintain distinct cultures within the larger societal fabric. This is observed in rituals surrounding entry into adulthood, where rites of passage define new roles within the group, providing the individual with a deeper connection to their cultural identity.

Consider the Maasai people’s Enkipaata ceremony – a significant rite of passage that marks the transition of boys to warrior class. These rituals are not merely ceremonial; they play a foundational role in perpetuating cultural continuity and societal norms.

“Ritual, by setting up sacred spaces and times, helps to mark off our shared reality from the endless flood of experience, providing structure and meaning” – Rupert Sheldrake.

The Dark Side of Exclusion

While boundaries can bring groups together, they can also lead to division and conflict. The exclusionary tactics that ensure holiness within a group can create demonization or stigmatization of those outside the boundaries, leading to sectarianism or xenophobia. History is replete with examples of this division, often leading to persecution and violence. As sociologist Émile Durkheim warned, the sacred can also create social tension, as shared beliefs can become dogmatic, fracturing societies along ideological lines.

Modern examples abound, from nationalism that excludes based on ethnicity or religion to gated communities that segregate the affluent from the rest of society. In such cases, the ritual of exclusion becomes a tool of power and control, reinforcing social hierarchies and economic divides.

Conclusion

The ritual of exclusion serves as a powerful reminder of human nature’s need for belonging and identity. While it fosters community and strengthens group identity, it also carries the potential for division and discrimination. Understanding the dual nature of these rituals can help societies navigate the complex interplay between sacred inclinations and the need for inclusivity. In recognizing the power of boundaries, modern groups can strive to create communities that celebrate distinct identities without resorting to exclusionary tactics that harm the broader social fabric.

As we move forward in an increasingly interconnected world, bridging the gap between holy boundaries and inclusive unity becomes not just a cultural necessity but a moral imperative.